Assumption

Well, hello there ! Pssttt... You guys wanna know something? That girl in the photo is actually me from 6 years ago ^.^  How is it related to the title of my entry? I was once a very very very innocent girl. Assumptions or speculations had never been in my life dictionary before someone told that "ENTAH-ENTAH DIA TU....." And so since that day, my pretty pure heart starts to change drastically. I started to make assumptions every time someone changes his heart towards our plan and I even assume bad things about one intentions when she or he does or plan to do something. Astaghfirullah T.T I wish she does not have to tell me that because that affects me until now. If I were to be an influenced person someday, I'd like to say that "Dont say such thing to a child or a growing teen. They are still innocent ! (you might never know, but still spread only good words)" To those who've spread a bad word, please repent because it might troubles you in the ressurection day later on. Allah has also mentioned about this in the Holy Quran in chapter 49 (Al-hujurat) , verse number 12.

SAHIH INTERNATIONAL

O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful. [source: quran.com]

Someone might claim that if you dont assume anything, people will bully you. My advice is dont make any assumption until it really happens. Then, only you should be assertive not assume.

You know what? I wanna tell you that it does FEEL GREAT when you're not assuming anything about someone. Just look at their good instead of their bad. That is one way to be happy too ;)

Till we meet again for the next entry! 

p/s: Sometimes I blamed her for teaching me how to assume whenever I couldnt stop assuming, but now not anymore. Things happened for a reason I guess? 

Signing off, 

SHA